Proverbs 17:28 says, Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding.

I am a talker. That has gotten me in lots of trouble over the years. I just want to say to all my friends and family: I’m so sorry for saying things that have hurt you over the years. Thank you for putting up with me, and loving me in spite of myself.
My tongue is definitely my greatest weakness. Every time I read the verse above, I get convicted – okay, anytime I read a verse on talking or the tongue, I get convicted! (See my Proverbs for today)
The Bible says the tongue is a world of iniquity in James 3. In fact, that chapter has a lot to say about the tongue! The tongue is dealt with a lot in the Bible, so I must not be the only one who struggles with this. The tongue must be a battle for all of us. (whew! at least I’m not alone!)
I tried as a teen to change my personality, to suddenly be quiet, so I could stay out of trouble! When I tried it, everyone thought I had a bad attitude! It was then that I realized I can’t change my personality. I simply must control it. I still struggle greatly. I would probably cry if my friends wrote in and listed all the times I had said something that hurt them – because I never mean to hurt anyone with my words. But it happens so fast! I must guard my tongue diligently.
I ask of you, dear reader, for two things: 1. Please forgive me if I have ever said something that hurt you. I assure you, I never meant to do it. I need every friend I have, and I need new ones, too. I don’t want to run you off!
2. Please pray for me that I will control my tongue better.
I want to “refrain my lips” so that my foolishness will be hidden. Maybe one day I can even be mistaken for a “man [woman] of understanding”! :o)