We, like most people, live busy lives. As a homeschooling mom, you would probably assume that I spend a lot of time with my children. I do, but it’s always time-with-a-purpose. I’m teaching them school, or how to do a chore, or talking to them about the upcoming activities, or correcting them. I rarely spend “fun time” with them. Before our schedule became so packed, I would take a different child grocery shopping with me each week. We would talk and they got to pick out a few of their favorite things for the week (like cereal or yogurt). Life required an adjustment to this routine and therefore, we no longer have this one-on-one time.
I had really missed our shopping trips so I instituted a new thing: “Fun Fridays with Mom”. Each Friday, I take a different child to lunch, their choice of restaurant (fast food). If we have time after lunch, we will go look in a store for something, go to the library, or get a Starbucks drink. It’s not a time for me to lecture them on something or teach them something, it’s just a relaxing time with them alone. I have enjoyed being able to focus on each of them individually this way; to be able to listen instead of talk.
I haven’t taken a photo every week (because I forget sometimes), but I did get one of each of the kids the first time we did this. I took them in birth order, so Lauren was first.
Lauren and I went to Dairy Queen together for the very first “Fun Friday with Mom”. The weather was pleasant enough for us to eat outside!
Mitchell asked for Greek food, then we went to K-Mart to do some clothes shopping for him.
Leslie picked Chik-Fil-A and then shopping at Goodwill. (She is very good at putting outfits together!)
Laci also picked Chick-Fil-A and then we went to the mall to find her an autumn church dress. (I took Leslie and Lauren at anther time.)
Matt picked Wendy’s and then we went to Walmart so he could spend some of his savings on this:
If they start up the draft again, Matt is ready!
It’s been a hectic few months with homeschooling, co-op, church secretarial work, and housework. Add in a kid getting hit by a car, some sickness, and the death of our family pet and you could say it’s been downright difficult. The Lord has been so gracious to hold us up through all of the ups and downs. We are bountifully blessed!
It may be a crazy life, but it sure is a wonderful one.
2 thoughts on “Fun Fridays with Mom”
You’re a very busy mom, indeed! Can’t imagine what it’s like for you. My sister has 3 boys and she’s always telling me how busy she is running around every single day doing school runs, helping them w homework and all of that. You’re doing a great job running your household–all those maternal/wifey duties are very draining not just physically but spiritually as well. I pray that the Lord will continue to give you special strength and grace everyday. Many blessings to you!
You are making a wonderful investment in your children’s lives, not just on Fun Fridays, but those special Friday lunches will always be remembered by them just as you treasure the “late, late breakfasts” with your Dad. I love the photos!
I love you.