Who would think that a $12 shower curtain could make me so, so happy? After several very difficult weeks, I decided to splurge! I know, I really went all out! I did away with the yucky clear plastic shower liner (which I take down, wash in my machine with bleach, and re-hang every few weeks) and the cloth shower curtain I had in my bathroom! Rather than go through the arduous task of cleaning it, I just went out and replaced it!! Woohoo!! Three cheers for livin’ it up!!

I picked something not as bright and colorful as the one pictured, but it’s definitely brighter! My bathroom is done in purple (what else?) and so I wanted to some light purple and light green accents in the new one. The best part is how lightweight it is! I think it will go much longer without mildewing than my old one. It’s a PEVA type, which is supposed to be a “greener” way to shower. 😉 I purchased this type of shower curtain when we re-decorated our main bathroom and fell in love with it!

Anyway, who knew that a new shower curtain could brighten my whole week? Change my attitude? Give me a new reason to live? Okay, maybe not that last one, but still, it was a happy moment and I wanted to share it with you.  🙂 Who knows! Maybe a new shower curtain is just what the doctor ordered for you, too!

Wishing you a blessed week,
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I didn’t realize how long it had been since I “dated”, if that’s what you want to call my teen boy-and-girl-together experience. Reading Departures by Robin Jones Gunn flooded my mind with memories of days gone by. I had never read any of Robin Jones Gunn’s books before, nor had I heard of her characters, Christy Miller and Sierra Jensen (Oops…I almost typed “Sierra Nevada”!). However, these two novellas do not require past knowledge of the main characters. Mrs. Gunn does an excellent job of filling in some background without overdoing it.

I admit it. It was hard to get going on the stories. Probably because I don’t really enjoy teen Christian romance fiction, and I must not have been paying attention when I made this selection. But, at the end of the stories, I was pleased that I’d taken the time to get to know both Christy and Sierra (though I tend to favor Christy.) (Don’t tell Sierra.).

Both girls are taking trips and learn valuable lessons along the way. Christy, age 18, is heading off to Wisconsin after her break up with Todd to be with her grandparents, Sierra, age 15, is getting to spend a vacation in Montana with her best friend, Jana. Christy wonders what “true love” is, and will she know what it is when the time is right? A question I remember asking when I was 18! Sierra is perturbed by Jana’s desire to have a boyfriend when she is content to just be friends with everyone. (Something I honestly could not relate to! haha!)

Christy and Sierra both enjoy themselves, showing that a gal can do right and still have fun. Mrs. Gunn does a good job of describing the emotional roller coaster girls deal with. In fact, it was almost too real. What a blessing to see the girls turn to God’s Word and their parents for guidance! An example that all girls should follow.

I really enjoyed reading these stories about teen dating life. It was like stepping back in time, remembering how carefree and fun my teen years were. When I turned the last page, I felt sad to see the story end. I wanted to keep getting to know these girls. That’s just what a good book should do.


FTC Disclaimer:
I received this book for free from WaterBrook Multnomah Publishing Group for this review.I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 

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I’d like to thank those of you who tried to help me on facebook. I read that there are some issues that Blogger is trying to fix regarding difficulty in commenting. If you’ve tried to comment, but couldn’t, it might be due to Blogger’s issues.

As for my problem with the blank posts, I searched and searched and finally found out that I must have deleted some code while tweaking and playing with my blog. Bum-mer! I had no idea where I went wrong, so I had to start over. I can’t remember exactly what colors or fonts I used on some elements, so I just changed it up. If you see any problems, would you please comment or contact me? I’d really appreciate it. Now…I must go get some housework done!

And to think this is my hobby?? Sheesh. 


Thank you for reading!!!
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I’m having some blog problems. Whenever I click on a direct link to a specific post to my blog, it pulls up a blank post. The sidebars are visible, but the post isn’t. I’ve tried this using Chrome and Firefox and get the same thing. If I visit my blog home page (www.valerie-thebishopswife.blogspot or valeriebasham.com) I can read all of my posts, but if I click on http://www.valerie-thebishopswife.blogspot.com/2011/06/driving-miss-valerie.html I get nothing but sidebars!

Also, the related post links at the bottom of each post only pull up blank posts.

So, are you having any problems reading this? If so, please comment and let me know. If you know the solution, please let me know how to fix it. I’ve contacted Google about it, but so far no response.

Thanks so much!
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On our way home from our vacation, we took a pit stop somewhere near Memphis, TN. (All the towns sort of ran together toward the end of our journey.) I let Matthew sit in the driver’s seat to get a little exercise since there wasn’t a good place to let him crawl around. It was hot so I had the van running to have the AC going. He had a big time grabbing the steering wheel, turning the left signal light on and turning on the windshield wipers. I thought these photos were just so cute! But, I am a bit prejudiced! 😉

I had planned to post these last week, but Matthew’s emergency surgery preempted my plans. I’m so thankful that my little happy guy is okay and still smiling.

“Ready? Here we go!! “
 “Oh dear, construction up ahead. Too bad I can’t see up ahead! These gauges are nice to look at, though.”
“Is it clear on the right? We’re having a little rain. Better turn on the wipers.”
“Ah, YES! This is MUCH better!”

You know, he’s not a bad chauffeur, for a 10 month old! 😉

With love,

“Miss”
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Matthew is doing better and better each day! He is playing more and sleeping less. In fact, he’s not sleeping through the night anymore! I am hoping it’s only because he’s gotten his days and nights mixed up. I was up until 4:30 this morning with him. He slept some of that time, but I couldn’t! Then, just as I was drifting off, he awoke and we were up until 4:30! I hope tonight goes better.

I’m a nervous wreck now about letting him down to play. I am so worried he will find some piece of something and choke on it. I’m thinking about training him to play in his playpen or maybe gate him into a room that has been baby-proofed. I need to know he’s okay, without holding him. (Not that I mind holding him, but I do have work to do.)

You’ll be happy to know I’m almost caught up on the laundry and we now have a menu and groceries in the house! Terry took care of some bills and errands around town today and the kids started back on school work. They aren’t too unhappy about it since we are indoors here in the afternoons. Yes, the heat is already getting us. It’s been in the 90’s already. We are looking forward to taking some weeks off in the fall.

I still need to do some cleaning to be completely caught up…for a minute anyway! Haha! When I think about cleaning with five young children in the house I think of this little ditty:

Cleaning your house while your children are growing, is like shoveling the sidewalk while it’s still snowing.

How true! That always makes me smile. Of course, I must clean, but I don’t want to stress about it. I want to enjoy these days of having a dirty floors and laughter in the hall. In no time at all I’ll be deafened by the silence.

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Only one word comes to mind to describe how I’ve felt yesterday and today: exhausted. I’m more emotionally exhausted than physically, but my body is tired after the 2,000 mile journey to and from Columbus, Ohio, and now the fear for Matthew’s little life. If you’re just now tuning in, please read my previous post to know the details of what I’m talking about.

Matt and I spent Sunday together, rocking, cuddling and nursing. He perked up near the end of the day, when we noticed his face was swelling, mostly around his eyelids. We weren’t sure if this was from the anesthesia, medication, (they gave him a steroid and an antibiotic through his IV at the hospital) or some allergic reaction to something else. We gave him Benedryl, which the doctors said would help with the inflammation of his airway from the surgery. He slept well and the swelling was down significantly today, so we feel it must have been a side effect from the surgery.

Today, we’ve enjoyed a day of lounging. I have done very little, and therefore, now feel guilty about that on top of the fatigue. I find myself checking in on Matthew while he sleeps, making sure he’s breathing. With each passing hour of recovery I’m starting to feel more secure that he will be okay.

Today, while bathing him, I couldn’t help but think about the “what ifs”. What if we had only seen that spring and had thrown it away? What if Lauren hadn’t been there, and we didn’t find him till it was too late? What if…the list could go on and on. I breathe a sigh of relief as I care for him. I am hoping that tomorrow we can resume our regular schedule of life. I need to do laundry, make a menu and grocery list, go shopping, clean…there is so much that I’m behind on!

Here are some photos taken the day we got home from the hospital.

 Puffy eyes. They got worse the next day.
Tiny bruise on his hand from the IV. This is darker today. 

Thank you all for your kind comments, thoughts, and prayers.

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On Friday, May 27, at approximately 2:30 PM, Matthew was playing on the floor in our oldest daughter’s room. Suddenly, Lauren called out, “Mom, Matthew just threw up a lot.” I ran in to clean up the mess, not too concerned about it. When I got to the room, I saw he was gagging over and over, as though he had something stuck in his throat. I tried to look, but got scared as his lips were blueish and he was still gagging. I called for my husband, who was home at the time, (thank the Lord) and we took Matthew into the hallway bathroom. Terry reached in his mouth to see if something was there. He touched something with the tip of his finger, but couldn’t extract it. Matthew was looking worse. Terry pulled his hand out and tried again. Still nothing and this time blood was coming out of Matthew’s mouth. I was holding Matthew, praying for help. Finally, Terry said, “Get in the van.” I ran to the van, barefooted and hopped in the front seat. Terry told the older children to stay inside and lock the doors. He had the wherewithal to remember my purse for me, which had our insurance information inside! We raced to our local hospital, which was about 10 minutes away, but felt like an hour! Terry flew – and even ran red lights – while I held Matthew upright in my lap checking his breathing and telling him that the Lord was with us. I think I mostly said that for me, though.

As soon as we arrived, I ran inside (yes, barefooted, like the true Arkansas hillbilly that I am), and told the registration lady that my son had something caught in his throat. She let us go straight back. The doctor looked in his mouth and said he saw nothing. Matthew looked watery-eyed, but not blue anymore. He was wanting to go to sleep, which scared me. How could he sleep right now? They wanted to do an x-ray to see if something was lodged lower down. Terry took him to the x-ray and I drove back home to get shoes on and a bit of make up and check on the other kids. When I arrived back at the hospital, Terry said the x-ray revealed the spring part of a wooden clothespin lodged in his trachea. As soon as I got there, the doctor came in and said because of what he had swallowed and how it was located, he could have nothing by mouth and would have to be driven by ambulance to Arkansas Children’s Hospital in Little Rock to have it removed. The doctor said that if Matthew vomited, it could bring up the object and cause Matthew to be unable to breathe, so we needed the EMT’s to be there.

Allow me to pause here to say that we are very vigilant to keep choking hazards off the floor. While packing for our recent vacation, my daughter cleaned out and organized her closet. We use clothespins to hang up skirts. We believe one broke and fell to the floor while she was working in there and she missed it. Sadly, Matthew found it. The doctors couldn’t believe he actually got this down. It is huge in comparison to the size of his throat.

We don’t have any family in town and didn’t know of anyone who could watch our four other kids. Terry thought about staying in Hope with our kids and letting me go alone, but, I told him honestly that I wanted him to be with me. I wasn’t sure what lay in our future and I was scared. We made some phone calls, but everyone local was unavailable. Finally, Terry thought to drop the kids off with my Mom in Benton (it’s on the way) and then he would join me at ACH.

Matthew and I zipped through town in the ambulance, with siren blaring. I often pray for those in an ambulance when I pull over for one to pass or if one passes my house. I wondered how many strangers were praying for us as we raced by? We arrived in Little Rock in about an hour or so and got right in. They took another x-ray to see if the object had moved. It had moved a bit lower down since the first x-ray.

Because Matthew was breathing fine and comfortable, they had us wait for the surgery until they could work him in. Finally, at 11:00 PM, they took my sweet boy back to the operating room. We gave him kisses and left him in the arms of the anesthesiologist. I had a pang of fear, wondering if he would do okay; if this was the last time I’d see him, but the Lord assured me that He was there and all would be fine. No matter what happened, Matthew was in good hands.

He came out of surgery at midnight. The surgeon said he had great difficulty removing the spring, it was wedged very tightly. He even broke a pair of forceps trying to get it out. The doctor said he came within an inch of having to open up his neck and remove it from the side. He had scraped Matt’s esophagus with the tools and the spring during surgery, so he was concerned that he had lacerated it. If he had, this would mean another surgery to sew the tears closed. Matthew would need to undergo a contrast test, where he would swallow barium and a radiologist would watch it on x-ray to see if there were any holes in his esophagus. They would have to keep him overnight to watch him.

I am blessed to have a very thoughtful cousin who lives minutes from ACH. She came over and sat with us, bought us supper and lunch the next day, and gave Terry a spare bedroom to sleep in that night so one of us could get some rest. We also have some wonderful friends, Charles and Audri McNeal, who came up to the hospital from Benton at midnight to sit in the waiting room with us! They were a such a comfort. They were with us when we went back to see Matthew in recovery.

I was so happy to hear that I could go back and see my sweet boy! He looked pitiful and swollen to me, but he was resting, and he no longer had that spring in his throat! The nurse said he was pretty mad when he woke up, so they gave him morphine for pain. He slept well until about 6 AM, when he got a suppository for pain.

Here are some photos of Matthew after we got settled into a room. I took these with Terry’s phone.

I stayed all night by his side, feeling so grateful that he was okay. The doctors, nurses and staff at Arkansas Children’s Hospital were so helpful, friendly and efficient! I’m starting to agree with my cousin, that the best thing about Arkansas is the Children’s Hospital! 🙂 The Lord had met all of our needs, in ways that only HE could.

Then next day, Matthew had to drink the barium and take the contrast test. Praise the Lord, he passed the test – no lacerations – and was able to nurse immediately after. We were released from the hospital at 2:30 PM on Saturday, May 28th – exactly 24 hours after the entire ordeal began. I was exhausted, in dire need of a shower and clean clothes, but Matthew was alive! Praise the Lord!

These events reminded me of Proverbs 27:1.  I couldn’t believe what had taken place in such a short amount of time! We have no guarantee that we will have today, or tomorrow, or any day! We all enjoy God’s grace, whether we appreciate or not, each and every day.

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On Monday, May 23, we were able to stop by the Creation Museum in Petersburg, Kentucky. It was a wonderful experience. It thrilled us to be in a place that was devoted to proving our faith, and believe me, the proof is all around us. I have 47 photos to share today, so I hope you have a few minutes to hit the high points of the museum with me. I could have shared 347, but I won’t. 🙂 If you ever get the chance, you must stop by this exciting place!
A chance for kids to search for hidden fossils on this wall.
An original Greek manuscript.
A copy of the Torah on sheepskin, confiscated from the Iraqi palace when Saddam Hussein was captured. It is dated at 300 years old!
A copy of the Torah found in Germany, hidden by Jews during the time of Hitler.
Adam and Eve. 
Adam in the Garden.
The serpent – I loved that I got Mitchell’s expression here. He wasn’t posing!
Eve, giving Adam the forbidden fruit. They think it was a type of berry or grape! The hand holding the fruit was shaking!
Eve, sorrowing over the sacrifice of an innocent lamb so she could have clothing.
The lamb, a picture of Jesus! There is no more need of a lamb, because of the Lamb – the Son of God!
Adam, working.
An angry T-Rex after the fall of man.
Do you see the bird in the upper left hand corner of this photo?
I zoomed waaay in and got this photo! 
Expectant Eve. I never think of her this way, so I thought this was neat.
Cain & Abel.

An idea of how thick the walls of the Ark could have been! Incredible!
They theorize that because of Noah’s faithfulness to the Lord, he was probably wealthy enough to hire laborers to help build the Ark. Here, these men on break are talking about how Noah is a religious fanatic!
My favorite part of the exhibit were these dioramas of the Ark!

A model of what the inside of the Ark might have looked like.
Cages for animals.
Cows eating. 🙂
The FLOOD!

I thought the detail on this diorama was so neat. See the algae, barnacles and slime on the bottom of the Ark?
I just thought this photo was cute! 🙂
We enjoyed hearing Ken Ham’s son-in-law, Bodie Hodge, speak about Dinosaurs, Dragons and the Bible. He autographed a book for the kids and posed for a photo. He and Terry got to chat for a while.
See this!! It’s Home School Enrichment magazine for sale in the Creation Museum Bookstore! My article is in it! I posed for a photo beside it and I know the cashier, who was watching, thought I was nuts. And, yep, she’s right! 😉
A real Raptor egg.
Lauren looking scared next to the T-Rex.
Lauren and Mitchell pretend to be running from the T-Rex! 🙂
A T-Rex egg, about the size of a football!
A T-Rex tooth. It was HUGE.
Me when I got up that morning.
They not only have an extraordinary museum, but a beautiful garden and petting zoo!

The Lord gave us beautiful weather for our day at the Creation Museum. We had a wonderful time with each other, learning more about God’s amazing world. By the end of the day, we were tired. But it was a good tired.

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My in-laws graciously offered to take our four older children to the safety carnival put on by their community last Saturday. Matthew stayed with Terry’s grandmother and Terry and I enjoyed a wonderful afternoon out alone together in Dublin, Ohio! We ate at Texas Roadhouse and had some ice cream at Dairy Queen. My father-in-law sent me these photos of the kids at the carnival. They were very tired when they got home and took good naps! 🙂 One very exciting thing was that Leslie won a bicycle and helmet in a drawing!!! She was also supposed to have her picture in the newspaper up there, but since we don’t live there, we weren’t sure which one! I’m hoping someone up there sees it and can pass it along to us. (hint, hint, Ohio readers!) 🙂 The new bike is such a blessing! Laci is now needing a bike, but we haven’t been able to purchase her one. With Leslie winning this one, we can pass on Leslie’s old bike to Laci. My kids were all very happy for their sister. This warmed my heart more than anything. Here are some photos from that day.

 Laci got her face painted.
Some sort of robot…the kids couldn’t remember what it was for! 
 Leslie getting her prize with Granddad! She’s my shy one! 🙂
They enjoyed snowcones! Leslie got to make her own and, well, got a bit carried away. 🙂
All the kids could take a one minute rescue boat ride. 
 Grandma and Granddad took the kids to a local park, which, according to the kids, was the best one EVER! 
We went to a Chinese buffet for Leslie’s 6th birthday. They played a birthday song for her over the loud speaker and brought her a little dessert with a candle in it! (I’m sorry you can’t see the dessert very well! I took a bad photo here.)
I have more to share soon! Thanks for reading!

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