document.write(unescape(“%3Ca%20href%3D%22 http%3A//www.thecutestblogontheblock.com%22%20target%3D%22blank%22%3E%3Cimg%20 src%3D%22http://thecutestblogontheblock.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Bernice-Blinkie.gif%22%20border%3D%220%22%20/%3E%3C/a%3E”)); I recently read a facebook comment where someone said, “That was the best time of my life.” They were referring to days gone by. The truth is, it’s very easy to look back and say to ourselves that “those days were the best.” We forget the sorrows of those days, we forget the problems, the trials, and we can only see the smiles and joy of “those” days.

Autumn is quickly approaching, and the cool winds bring some changes for me and my family. It’s easy for me to sit and think “These days are the best, don’t change a thing.” However, I’m learning that change is inevitable. My kids are growing, –  there’s no stopping it! I am aging and changing each day, as well as my friends and loved ones. With the aging process comes inherent changes. I used to become quite sad that life was changing; that my kids were growing up and moving more and more away from needing me. But, I cannot do that anymore. It traps me in the past. While I love remembering the days when they were small, I must also remember that those days were not perfect. I must learn to relish today. Today. That’s a good word, isn’t it?

This is the day which the LORD hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it. said the psalmist in Psalm 118:24. Paul said in Phil. 3:13-14, Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus. Paul probably wanted to forget the wrongs that he had committed, as most of us do. Sometimes, I think we need to focus less on the good, too. If we become trapped in the good ol’ days, we will miss out on glorious today!

I often remind myself to take one day at a time when things are going wrong, or when there is a huge mountain to climb. But, that’s true when things are going well, too! Enjoy today, savor today, do your best today. And then, tomorrow, do the same. Forget yesterday and think about today. One day, not long from now, we will be with our Lord, where we will never have to sorrow over the past again. We will be in the land of glorious forever. 


The best time of my life, and yours, is now.
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Here are some photos from Lauren’s 13th birthday!

Her birthday sign on the school chalkboard. Leslie and Laci still had to do school, but Lauren and Mitch were off. 🙂
A surprise gift from Grandma and Granddad!
Reading the card.
Hmmm, something’s in there! Grandma made her a satchel, similar to Mitchell’s!
A compass! (She loves tromping through the woods.)
Ah! More! A pocketknife, trailmix and binoculars! I see a hike in her future. 😉
Her name is on the front. Thanks, Grandma! 🙂
Her cake. 

The decoration, once again, isn’t much. It’s a spinner with different words on it like kind, beautiful, sweet, cool, etc. The center says “You are” and then the arrow points to all the adjectives. She is everyone of those and more. ♥
Aunt Melanie knitted her this cute envelope purse! 

And, Mom and Dad gave her this MP3 player so she can listen to her favorite group, Southern Raised, whom she met at teen camp this summer. We also gave her one of her favorite candy bars. 🙂

Me & Lauren with her gifts.

Dad & Lauren 

To wrap up her first day as teenager, we were able to meet Nana for dinner in Arkadelphia. 

Her free ice cream sundae! Yummy!

The kids also cut up a bunch of construction paper for confetti and surprised her with it. (She had seen what they were up to, but she acted surprised.) 🙂 I was pleased that they thought of that on their own and did it. They all worked hard at thinking of something special to do for her.

Below is Lauren’s birthday song. Click play or go HERE.

Before I leave you, I wanted to share what is, in my opinion, the sweetest card ever written. Leslie came into our bedroom in her quiet way the night before Lauren’s birthday. She said she wanted to read us a card she’d written for Lauren. What she read, and perhaps enhanced by the way in which she read it, touched my heart. It brought tears to both my own and my husband’s eyes. I adjusted her spelling and punctuation to make a bit easier to read, after all, she’s only in second grade. 🙂  Here it is:

Dear Lauren, 
I wish you have a very good birthday. Please eat me a piece of cake. I’m sending this card to you because I truly love you, Lauren, and I can’t believe my eyes – you can’t already be 13! Please love me for this card, Lauren. How I wish I was you because you’re such a thrill to me. You are a wonderful girl, Lauren. 

Love,
Leslie

She got out our craft book and made her this gift – it’s supposed to be a lighthouse surrounded by cardboard water, but we didn’t have the paint so she could make it look just right. (Bad, Mother!) She followed the directions for everything else and it really was cute, even without the paint. While it was full of color or even real water, it was full of love. Love that only a sister can have for another sister. I’m thankful I can witness this kind of love.

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Dear Lauren Kassidy,

I remember the day we brought you home,
A sweet little bundle of our very own.
Your tiny hands and sweet little face,
Spread sunshine and smiles all over the place!

I rocked you all night, a special time,
Savoring the fact that you were all mine!
My goal was to care and to love you, dear,
Protect you from danger, keep you from fear.

We watched you go from crawling to walking,
From babbling and cooing to lots of talking!
You made us laugh and shake our heads
As we carried you off and tucked you in bed.

You grew and grew, so much each day,
Into the young lady you are today.
Tall and strong and funny and sweet
You make each day a special treat.

You love Star Wars, swords and running, too,
The tree house, guns and books – not a few.
The piano I love to hear you play,
You work hard on it each and every day.

I’m so proud of you – you’re such a fine girl,
But the time went so fast, puts my head in a whirl!
In the quiet, dark evening, when the sky is black
I sometimes sit solemnly and start looking back.

I see the blond head, the bright blue eyes,
Taking in everything, foolish and wise.
You saw my mistakes, and you see them today,
How I’ve failed in the past, how I’ve gone the wrong way.

I’ve done one thing right, and that’s stay in the Word,
Listening to Him through sermons I heard.
I ask for forgiveness when wrongs I have done
Restoration I find through God’s only Son.

As you take off from here, for teen years ahead,
I ask you one thing, to be by Christ led.
He’ll walk with you gladly o’re trails great and small,
He will guide you in life, just out to Him call.

In those quiet, dark nights, I sometimes see
That sweet little girl sitting on my knee.
I remember her smile, her little voice,
And I know what I’d do, if I had a choice.

I would do just the same; I’d not change a thing!
I’ve treasured each moment that your life did bring.
I look forward with the pleasure to weeks and years,
The laughter, the fun, the sadness, the tears.

Life’s road has its changes, its twists and turns,
Some hills and valleys and lessons to learn.
Some say, “Teen years are dreadful, just run away!”
“Do all that you can to avoid them!” they say.

But I’m not afraid, though the future is hazy;
You won’t send me running because I’ve gone crazy!
You love the Lord,  for Him you do live.
There’s no greater joy to a mom you could give.

Life has many unknowns or variables, it’s true!
It’s proof that algebra is useful for you.
But no matter what ups and downs we see,
There is one constant which will always be:

I’ll love you forever, in sickness and health,
My home is your home, my wealth is your wealth.
From here you may leave and move far away,
But my prayers follow you, day after day.

There’s no burden you carry that I will not share,
No trial of yours I won’t gladly bear.
Come rain or shine, you can be quite sure
My darling daughter, my love will endure.

Happy 13th birthday to the sweetest teenager in the world!

With love,
Mom

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I will never forget the excitement that coursed through my veins as I got behind the wheel of our Tempo that chilly, rainy night. At that time, my mom was the elementary principal at Jessieville Schools. She wore many hats, as most faculty of small school districts do. She was head of the cafeteria and Title 1 coordinator aside from her regular principal duties. She spent many of her nights with stacks of folders beside her, writing vigorously at our kitchen table. She also did small things, like work the door at basketball games and the gate at football games. My brother and sister had long since flown the coop, so it was just my dad, my mom and myself. The three of us enjoyed being together, and we worked to do that whenever possible. That’s why Dad and I and were making the forty mile drive from our house to the football field that night. We wanted to be with mom. I secretly wanted some nachos, too.
Dad asked me as we loaded up, “You wanna drive?”
“Really?”
“Sure.” (He was such a cool dad.)
“Yes, sir!”
I got in and buckled up. Dad might have been nervous about his youngest child being behind the wheel, but he never let on. Mom did, but then, mothers are more nervous by nature.
I merged onto I-30 with no problem. I took exit 111 toward Hot Springs. Then the Lonsdale cutoff…and then, the rain came! It poured and poured. The road became hidden behind the sheets of water that fell from that cold sky that autumn night. I couldn’t see. I was inexperienced  – this was my first storm! Dad was right there, telling me it was okay, just slow down, but those words didn’t help too much. I gripped the steering wheel tightly, leaned forward and squinted – as though any of those actions gave me more control over the situation. I stared into the blackness ahead of me, willing myself to see. Cars approached from the other direction, but I didn’t see their lights until they were right in front of me! I thought about what might be in front of me: a broken down semi? A person stranded on the side of the road? All clear? I didn’t know – I could be about to have a terrible accident! Fear gripped me. I prayed. I’m pretty sure Dad was praying, too!
Finally, the storm let up. The rain slowed to a drizzle and all that remained of the storm were scattered leaves on the black pavement. By the time we pulled into the school parking lot, my pulse had returned to normal. And Dad looked very relieved to be able to stretch his legs. I was pumped! I had just successfully driven through a torrential downpour! Yes!
Dad and I made our way to the gate where mom was waiting with Mrs. Ballew, her companion in the ticket booth. Most of the crowds had made their way in, so I was able to chat with mom for a bit. I excitedly shared with her each minute detail of the drive over. When I finished, Mrs. Ballew said in her slow, southern way, “Next time, when you can’t see the road, just look at the white line.” I just smiled and filed her comment away in my brain. Then I got those nachos.

Months passed, and once again, I was making the forty mile drive out to Jessieville, only this time, I was alone. It started raining. Hard. I couldn’t see the road. But I remembered what Mrs. Ballew said: “Just look at the white line.” So, I did. I looked for the white line, followed it, prayed and drove slowly. And, I made it!

The intelligent people at the highway department have done more than just provide for us the shortest route possible to various destinations. They also care about our safety. That’s why they have placed those grooves along the sides of the Interstate. And, that’s also why the lines on the road are painted in reflective paint. That’s why we have the double yellow lines down the middle of the road, and white ones on the sides. They knew that one day, there would be an inexperienced sixteen year old driver making her way down a dark, slippery road on a rainy, foggy night. They knew she would be afraid when she couldn’t see the road. That’s why they put the lines on the road, so that all she had to do was look for the glowing white line and follow it, until the storm ceased and the fog cleared.

It’s been twenty years since I was that inexperienced driver. When I drive in storms today I still get a bit frightened, but now I know where to look for help. I’ve experienced other storms in life, too. Some really, really bad ones. I couldn’t see where the storm was taking me; the darkness hid my Father, the road curved and twisted…or had I gotten off the road? Was I in a ditch? Fear gripped me! Just then, I remembered to look at the white line; I remembered to go to His Word! My omniscient Father knew there would be a young, inexperienced wife and mother who would travel the road of life during a storm. He knew she wouldn’t know where to look for help. So, in His infinite wisdom, He placed promises, encouragement, hope, direction and love in a book. He illuminated that book with His Holy Spirit. His Word, the Bible, is the white line for life. It keeps me centered, focused and moving in the right direction, even in the darkest storms of life.

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We held our second annual back-to-school kids’ carnival last Saturday, August 18. We had hoped we’d have about 30 kids, we had half that number. One lady saw our sign and dropped by with her son, but they took one look around and decided to leave. 😦 Terry got to give a short Gospel presentation to those in attendance, so that was a blessing. God’s Word never returns void! Our carnival wasn’t anything spectacular, no rides or funnel cakes, etc. It was geared for early childhood/elementary school age children. We had games, hot dogs, goody bags, a small wagon for the little ones to ride, and best of all, a dunk tank! Bro. Terry climbed in the dunk tank so everyone had a fun time trying to soak the pastor! 🙂 We had one guy who was dressed up like a sheriff, but he only stayed that way for about five minutes – I didn’t even get a photo! He’s the one who handed out the little mustaches in the photos below. 

A sweet lady in our church offered to do face painting!
All done!  

One of our sweet kiddos at church.

This young lady is in my Sunday school class! 
A young man trying to get the “100”. 

We had a small shooting range in the back of the church. 

A close up of the target. They shot at clay pigeons. 

I caught Leslie’s toss in mid air! 
Our little wagon ride.

I zoomed in to take another picture and Matt turned around just in time!

Behind the church – the wagon is way off in the distance, to your right in the photo above.

Matthew LOVED the wagon/mower! He sat on it even when it wasn’t moving. *aww*

Bro. Terry at the dunk tank!

To see some videos of the dunk tank, click on the following links:
Carnival Video 1 
Carnival Video 2
Carnival Video 3
Carnival Video 4
(Each clip is about 30 seconds to a minute long)

The little ones enjoyed playing on the mower with Matt while the big kids did the dunk tank.
We were blessed with lovely weather, and a lovely time. 

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This is just a photo of the girls before our Wednesday night services. I liked their hair-dos. 

Wow, what a busy week this has been! It was a special week because of all the “firsts” we had!

  • On Tuesday, August 14, Laci (K5) read her first word! It was “bat”! 🙂 
  • On Wednesday, August 15, Leslie quoted her first poem of 2nd grade from memory! It was “A Thank You Prayer” (Author Unknown).
  • On Thursday, August 16, Matthew had his first haircut  trim. His hair started growing pretty fast all of a sudden, so I think he’ll need a real haircut soon! 

Well, I better scoot! We’re holding our second annual back-to-school kids’ carnival tonight and we are praying for a good crowd and decent weather. We’re thankful for the rain we had last night, but we are hoping for two hours of dry time for our outdoor carnival activities (dunk tank, shooting range, grilling hot dogs). It’s really cloudy now. I hope to post photos soon!

Just wanted to say hi. 🙂

Have a great weekend!
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Hot Springs holds a special place in my heart. I was born in the lovely “Spa City” thirty--some years ago. Neither my mom nor my dad were born in Hot Springs. My dad grew up in Conway, and my mom was raised in Batesville. 
My parents’ moved out to Colorado Springs, Colorado, as soon as they said, “I do”. Dad was working for the Red Cross then, and that’s where they needed him. One year later, he was sent to Korea with them. My Mom and older brother, who was just a baby, could not go with him. Mom wanted to return to Arkansas to be near her family. But where? She wanted to get a job, so she decided to be a teacher. Her degree was in sociology with a minor in French. She would teach French! Teaching would give her decent working hours so she could be home a lot with my brother while earning a living. She sent out her application to the major cities in Arkansas, the only ones who would have a need for a French teacher: Fayetteville, Little Rock, El Dorado, Fort Smith, and Hot Springs. She was soon hired by the Hot Springs school district. And it would change our lives.
In Hot Springs, she taught French, but only for a short time. It was in Hot Springs that a kind lady named Jean Daves would one day invite us to Grand Avenue Baptist Church to hear her pastor, Bro. Glenn Riggs. It was one starlit evening when that pastor, along with his associate, Glen Lewis, would knock on our door on Sunset Bay Drive and ask to visit with them. It was there that my parents welcomed them in, Mom worrying a bit about how the house looked (it looked fine). The gentlemen opened a book, a Book that led the way to a new life in Christ! It was around that brown kitchen table, with crickets chirping outside, that mom would dab at the tears in her eyes as she learned that the sinless Son of God came down to Earth to bleed, die, and rise again, for her. What a thought! No one had ever loved her like that!  My father fiddled with his napkin – or so I imagine – as he took it all in, he, too, believing on this glorious Savior! They bowed in prayer as sinners destined for hell, but looked up as sinners saved by grace, going to Heaven! It was in this kitchen that mom baked a multitude of cupcakes for little bus kids, prepared Sunday school lessons, mopped floors, stirred tea and washed dishes. It was in the large master bedroom that I listened to stories, wrestled with my dad and watched Magnum, P.I. It was in the vast backyard that I played, pretended to be all sorts of things, where I saw a tarantula, threw a brick in the Putman’s frozen swimming pool, rode my bike, and “smoked” bubble gum cigarettes with my neighbor, Christy. It was at that kitchen table that dad informed me not to “smoke” those again. It was on the carport that I got to stay up way past my bedtime waiting for my brother to come home from college. I sat on the bumper of our Fiesta and held my cardboard “welcome home” sign, and dreamt of moving to a bigger, better town. 
Years have come and gone since I sat wishing to be elsewhere. And I’ve gone to quite a few places since then, too. But no matter where I go, no place has the power that  Hot Springs holds. As I drive down its familiar roads, inhaling the pine, listening to the cicadas’ song, soaking up the beauty of this valley, I can’t help but thank God that He brought us to Hot Springs. God moved us away when I was seven, and I grew to love our new home just as much as the old! But I can’t help but feel a surge of excitement when I see signs for “Higdon Ferry Road” or “Grand Avenue” and “Central Avenue”. I love the sight of the magnolias. I love the faux gaslights that line Bathhouse Row. I love seeing the mall, which we visited often! But I only love it because it takes me back in time. Back to the family of five that lived on Sunset Bay Drive, back to the stories, the books, the playtime. When I go back in my mind, my dad is alive and laughing, my sister is home, Mom is humming as she works, and everyone is smiling.
But best of all, we are all together. Together. That’s really my favorite place to be. 
The lovely valley that was home.

Lake Hamilton
Lake Hamilton was just a few blocks from where I lived.

“We were sailing along, on Moonlight Bay…” 

The house – that’s the carport and part of the backyard.

The front door! The house didn’t have all of that shrubbery or trees in the yard when we lived there. My room was the window on the left end. I got to share it with my sister.
The fountain in downtown. It was 112 degrees that day, but I didn’t even notice till I looked at the thermometer in our van! I guess I’ve adjusted (somewhat) to the heat. Or, I was just so excited to be home! 
I liked this view from Bathhouse Row.

Walking along Bathhouse Row. 

Another bathhouse…they are all very unique, but my photography doesn’t do it justice.

I just liked this photo. Dusk was coming on. Half the street lights were on, the other half weren’t. 

My hot date and walking companion. 

More Bathhouses! And I didn’t photograph all of them. 🙂

Terry washing his face in a hot spring. Every fountain is about 150 degrees.

Here I am with one of the springs. 

One bathhouse has been closed and turned into a museum. This sign has been there for a very long time! I love seeing God’s Word! 

Yes, please! (Wish I could have had one!) 

The Fordyce Bathhouse exists because of spring #46. (see next photo)

Which originates here. 🙂

We had never noticed this tall building before. We liked it.

My favorite photo of the day! Bathhouse Row at dusk. Lovely.

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Wow, I thought today would never end! And I really hate feeling that way! I’m one of those people who wakes each morning planning to savor every moment. I begin each day with my quiet time – Bible, notebook, and journal. Then breakfast and then school. School is non-stop fun…most days. Today, school was just non-stop.I’m always tired at the end of the day, but today, I felt sick on top of my normal fatigue -sore throat, runny nose, sneezing, blah! I thought I’d rest while the baby napped, but something happened and he didn’t sleep! Instead, he figured out how to open his brother’s drawer that had his deodorant in it and yep – he smeared it all over himself and the bed. I got that cleaned up, did two loads of laundry, vacuumed and now…well…isn’t it bedtime yet? 😉

I’m so glad I’ve already got the supper meat browned, all I have to do is cook some spaghetti and throw it together. It’s been a multiple-cup-of-coffee kind of day.

Each day is a gift from the Lord, no matter what happens. And I’m so glad that He gives strength to His little ones so that we can make it till bedtime. Especially on the days when it seems bedtime will never come.

Oh, and thanks so much for the comments yesterday. One time, it actually said “3 comments awaiting moderation”! THREE! Thank you.

Enjoying my third cup of coffee,
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I haven’t had time to edit any photos for a post today, but I’ve gotten in such a habit of posting lately, I wanted to write something. I first started my blog (by a different name) almost five years ago. It was a great way to connect with other like-minded women and keep in touch with relatives who lived far away. As a busy mom and pastor’s wife, socializing didn’t happen for me in real life too often. I quickly learned that I could reach out online and visit with lots of people with just a click! Back before Facebook was wildly popular, blogging was a way to personalize my own space on the web. If readers commented, I could comment back, or visit their blogs. I could read about them and make new friends, without ever having to leave the house. (Not that I like staying in the house, but sometimes, I just can’t leave.)

I still love comments, even though e-mail and Facebook have become a quicker way to share thoughts or make introductions. I know that there is a way to have comments sent to my e-mail as soon as they are made. I also know that I could set comments to post automatically, instead of “moderating” them. But, then I’d miss out on one of my favorite things. What is it? I’m so glad you asked! You see, sometimes, I don’t have any notifications on Facebook – I love it when that little red bubble says “8” or “3”! The other day, it said “17”! (fist pump) I also love to see that little Gmail icon change to a number on my toolbar! Likewise, I get a thrill when I log on to Blogger and see the phrase “1 comment awaiting moderation”. It’s like bonus e-mail! I click on it and read it, about to burst inside with excitement! It’s kind of like eating chocolate, only without the threat of gaining weight. Sometimes, I see that indicator while I’m waiting for my kids to finish up a worksheet or test. You’d never know how excited I am by looking at me, after all, I can’t disrupt class, but the joy is there nonetheless.

I love the thought that there are real people out there, some in foreign countries, who are stopping by to visit. I love thinking about where they live, what their lives are like, what they might be doing to change the world, and on and on. I love visiting their homes on the web, and seeing the way they live. And I really love seeing “1 comment awaiting moderation.”

 Really. 🙂

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Yes, I’m still catching up! Oh! And this also happens to be my 800th post! (Cue confetti burst) And just think, if I had been able to import my posts from my WordPress blog, it would be perhaps my 900th post. Thank you so much for reading, especially to those of you who have endured the entire 800+. You bring joy to my life. 🙂

 The following took place waaay back in early May. During the first part of the year, I let each child take turns picking out a recipe from our kids’ cookbook for us to make together. I still enjoy having their help in the kitchen, but due to busy a summer and a crazy schedule, we’ve gotten away from picking out a particular recipe to make together. Lately they’ve been helping me with whatever I’ve picked out! I do hope to get back to letting them choose a recipe again soon, though. It’s a lot of fun! Here’s Laci’s selection, “Ooey Gooey Caramel Chocolate Dunk”, from The Pampered Chef’s Kids in the Kitchen cookbook.

Unwrapping the caramel candies. These little caramels reminded me of my childhood. My mom used to unwrap one or two to enjoy while she read the paper after supper. Precious memories! 🙂

Stirring it all together.

Waiting for the microwave to beep. 

Done! One happy little chef! 

Everyone is enjoying their dip with strawberries and pretzels. Of course, Mitchell had to be different and make a sad face! Silly boy! 🙂
Ingredients:
1 package (14 oz.) caramels (about 50)
1 can (5 oz.) evaporated milk
1/2 cup semi-sweet chocolate morsels
1/2 tsp. vanilla
Dippers of your choice: apple or pear wedges, fresh strawberries, pretzels, cookies or angel food or pound cake cubes.
Directions:
  • Unwrap caramels and place in bowl. Add evaporated milk, chocolate morsels and vanilla and stir.
  • Place in microwave, uncovered, on HIGH 3 minutes. Remove and stir. Return to microwave and continue microwaving 30 seconds to 1 minute or until caramel is melted. Stir until smooth. (Don’t worry if there are a few unmelted pieces of caramel.
  • Serve with your favorite dippers! 🙂

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